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Hey Servers, There’s An App For That

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Introducing Waiters Today

As I approach my second year of writing this blog, I am pretty impressed with the quality of the server blogs on the web. I think that some bloggers like Mike Q at Life On A Cocktail Napkin have significantly raised the bar with the quality of their writing. Other blogs like Sock Puppet Army, You Just Got Sat, and Waitress Tales seem to have gone away. Each of these blogs had killer posts that made them worth reading. Other blogs have changed focus as the author’s jobs have changed. Server blogs come and go. I suppose that is why it takes something special to get me excited about a new server blog.

That is why Waiters Today deserves a mention. As server blogs go, Waiters Today is really something new and different. Waiters Today aspires to be more than a blog. Instead it is a social networking site for servers. With forums, groups, blogs, pictures, and videos, the site has taken an innovative approach to the traditional server blog. Waiters Today might be the first web 2.0 site dedicated exclusively to restaurant employees.

What really caught my eye is a very cool app they just introduced to their website. It allows you to track your tips for each day and be able to look at how much you have made over the course of weeks and months. Sure you could do this on your own with an Excel spreadsheet, but the app makes it far more fun. It also generates graphs with the click of a mouse to allow you to gain greater insight into what you are actually earning. Once you have signed up for an account at Waiters Today, it is simple to install. First go to this link: http://waiterstoday.com/opensocial/application/addByUrl. When you arrive at the page, enter this link: http://skygate.pl/projects/ning/personalTip/personalTip.xml. That is all you have to do, except remembering to update the page with your tips.

I have long been a believer that you cannot adequately measure what you are earning without keeping records. If you focus too much on the bad day or bad week, you will lose sight of the big picture. This type of app will help you focus on the big picture. It may even prevent you from making rash decisions based on a bad week or two. For this reason alone, it is worth visiting Waiters Today.

More importantly, I appreciate what Waiters Today is doing to build a server community. We all know that serving is not an easy job. Waiters Today and other sites like it allow you to find other people who are facing the same struggles. You might even find some insights on how to overcome them. I think that is what makes great server blogs so special. They remind us that we are not alone. Other servers have the same issues and together we can all overcome them.

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How to Carry Three Plates

 

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In continuing the “how to” series on this blog, we are turning from glasses to how to carry three plates.  Carrying three plates in one hand is one of the first tricks many servers are required to learn.  You can always spot a new server as they carefully walk through the dining room with two wobbling plates in their left hand.  This skill when mastered leads a professional server to traverse the dining room with ease while carrying 3, 4, or even 5 plates.  Once you understand how to carry three plates, the only limits to the number of plates you can carry is your ability to locate balance points.

The basic three plate carry is more a matter of technique than balance.  The important thing to remember here is that the top of the plate is sacred.  No part of your hand or another plate should ever touch the food on another plate.  If when you deliver the plates any of them have food from another plate on the bottom, you have failed to deliver them intact.  For this reason most restaurants use plates that have large outer lips.  Chefs will also usually serve their meals on the center of the plate.  By utilizing these two factors, you can successfully carry three plates in one hand.

Here is a step by step guide to this practice.

Place the first plate between your thumb and first finger by the edge.  Rotate the plate away from your body.

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Place the next plate under the first.  Use your remaining three fingers to support the plate while the top edge of the second plate rests on the bottom of the first.

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Now that your have learned how to carry three plates, additional plates can be carried from this base by utilizing balance points. 

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Imagine each of the circles above as a plate.  The small circles in the pictures represent a spot where that plate is supported.  Plate one would likely fall in any direction because it is only balanced on one point.  Plate two has a better chance, but would tip to either sire.  Plate three is secure because it has three balance points.  The key concept to remember is that a plate is secure once it has three balance points.  With this concept in mind, we can carry additional plates on the base we already have.

The third plate is added using my arm as two balance points and the lip of the second plate as an additional balance point. 

How to carry three plates

To add a fourth plate, I move the third plate back.  This uses my arm as two of the balance points and my body as the third.

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The fourth plate then uses the third as two balance points and the knuckle of my thumb as the third.

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A side view demonstrates that the height added by the stacking will allow greater clearance between the food on one plate and the bottom of the next.

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By adding an additional plate in the free hand, you can now carry five plates at once.  This is a very useful skill in high volume restaurants where the use of trays is discouraged.  It is not the ideal way to carry plates, but it is far superior to making three trips to the kitchen because you carry only one plate in each hand.  This trick will save you steps and decrease the time your guests spend waiting for their food.  Saving steps can often be the key in high volume restaurants to guest satisfaction on improved income.

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Skill Focus: Selling As A Server

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Of all of the concepts I have introduced on this blog and in my book, this week’s sales focus deals with the topic that I feel most strongly about.  This is the one area I am most disappointed with how it is addressed by the restaurant industry.  So many restaurant companies now refer to their serving staff as the “sales staff” or some derivative of that term.  Incredibly few of them provide an ample education on selling as a server and even less provide an explanation of why sales is actually part of service.  It is instead explained as a way to increase your tips by increasing their sales. 

Now don’t get me wrong here.  I also think selling as a server is a way to increase your tips and improve a restaurant’s sales.  I don’t think this occurs as a result of “upselling and add-ons.”  I am not going to tell you how much you could make over the course of a year if you just sold 12 more desserts a week.  You have heard it before and you have probably learned it doesn’t work.  Selling superfluous items by constant suggestive selling may increase the amount of the check, but the guest still determines the tip.  They will also determine whether or not they return to the restaurant.

So now that I have agreed with every reason you have to dislike trying to sell as a server, please read the next paragraph with an open mind.

Selling as a server is not about trying to get the guest to spend more.  Selling as a server is about trying to get the guest to spend wisely.  The guest came in to buy food, drinks, or both.  It is in your best interest for the guest to order the best (not necessarily the most expensive) meal on the menu.  You have the benefit of having tried most things on the menu and having received the feedback of countless guests.  You are the expert on the food you sell.  If you can direct the guest to the best possible meal, they will appreciate it as an added service you provide.  This will result in a higher tip and a return guest.

Now if every restaurant explained sales in that way, servers would not be so resistant.  Selling is an extension of service.   Some of you might be nervous about the concept of selling due to experiences you have had with bad salespeople.  That is completely understandable, but you should not judge sales by the actions of a bad salesperson.  This would be similar to a guest judging you at the beginning of the meal based upon the actions of the worst server they have ever had.  Take a look at the chapter this skill focus is based upon to further understand this concept.

Chapter 34: In Defense Of Selling As A Server

That is by far my favorite chapter in the book.  It is the one I go to when I do readings for the public and it receives an incredibly favorable response.  No one wants to be sold to.  Everyone wants to receive the benefit of a knowledgeable expert when making a decision.  Selling as a server is your opportunity to provide your expertise to the guest.  When you do so, they will reward you and return.

Tips2: Tips For Improving Your Tips is the new book from the author of The Hospitality Formula Network. It contains the 52 essential skills of the exceptional server. This book teaches the philosophy to turn average service into an exceptional guest experience that will rapidly increase your tips. This book shows how you can provide better customer service and dramatically improve your tips. Enter the coupon code “squared” to receive 20% off your copy today.

Creating A Server Community

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Is this a first step towards building a community?

One of the coolest parts of spending over a decade in the restaurant business is that you know someone at most every restaurant.  Last night, my girlfriend Ali (who complains about not getting mentioned enough on here) and I went to check out a new restaurant.  We scrolled through a list of six people we knew between us that worked there.  Unfortunately only one was working, but I did see two more that I didn’t even know worked there.  The owner, who wanted me to be sure and say hi to the owner of my restaurant, paid us a visit.  By the end of the meal, our server even met two new industry folks who would vouch for him if asked to.

There are over 17,000 servers in Kansas City, but among the ones who have worked at more than a couple of restaurants, there is generally only a couple of degrees of separation between them.  Background checks are fairly simple amongst this group because someone on the staff knows someone who has worked with them.  It is a very small world and one that it is important to maintain your reputation within.  I am still not sure that I would call it a community though.  Even in a time when social networking is a part of daily life, there is still relatively little opportunity for servers to gather, share ideas, and advance common goals.

This is why one website has really captured my interest.  I haven’t written about The Employee Lounge on this blog before because I wasn’t sure what it was going to develop into.  I also wasn’t sure what sort of appeal it would have to people beyond Kansas City.  I saw the potential for what it could become, but I think it has extended far beyond that potential.  As it continues to grow, I think it will prove to be a model that should be emulated around the country.  This has the potential to create the framework to build a sense of community between servers that has been lacking.

I should also point out that today’s profile was about me.  This is how I managed to tie in the relevance to my audience.  Even if you read this blog daily or I have waited on you, there is still a much broader picture of the person painted by one of their profiles.  This serves as an example of how they manage to get the person behind the persona.

What I like about this site so much is that it puts a spotlight on the servers, bartenders, chefs, and others that make this industry work.  It is more than just a bio or resume.  Tina and Linh, the founders of The Employee Lounge, really strive to get to know the people they are writing about.  As a reader, you get to know far more about them too.  I read about servers who I know and still learn something about them.  They have a tremendous ability to put their subjects at ease and everyone looks cooler through Tina’s lens.

There is not a lot of fame that comes with being a service industry professional.  Most servers will never get the chance to do an interview or have a story written about them.  This site seeks to change that.  It is now my “go to” source for finding out about servers changing jobs and finding old co-workers.  It creates an appreciation for the people who make up this industry and helps guests see us as more than “just a server.”

The site is also great about spreading the word on community events.  They sponsor some of the more interesting server/bartender related happenings.  Their list of service industry nights, cheap wine deals, and brunch spots is the best on the web.  They end every interview by asking what the subject would do to make Kansas City better.  They take the lead by doing what they can to make it better too.

The purpose of this post is not to say how cool my city is.  It is not to get you to go look at pictures of me looking cool.  It is not even to help promote a very deserving site.  Those would all be good reasons to write a post.  I think the message is a little bigger though.

Your city has just as many cool servers, bartenders, and chefs.  You may not be as good with a camera as Tina or be able to turn a phrase like Linh, but you can help create a community.  Introduce yourself to the next person to wait on you.  Help spread the word about job openings.  Get to know the people around you in this industry and help plant the roots for a community.  For far too long we have been treated as a group of people who are simply between jobs or waiting to finish school.  You are more than that and so are the people around you.  Recognize that and build upon it.  We have much more to offer when we view it as a community than when we see ourselves as individuals.

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Announcing Tips²: Tips For Improving Your Tips

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It is with a great deal of pride and excitement that I can finally announce the release of my first book: Tips2: Tips For Improving Your Tips.  I have been teasing this big announcement for months and am glad to finally be making it, even though for regular readers it may be akin to Mitt Romney announcing that he is running for President.  We all know that he hasn’t been in Iowa and New Hampshire for the last two years because he loves the weather.  Today, I am making it official and wanted to take a moment to discuss the book and why I truly think it is something that should be on your bookshelf.

When I was a young server in the nineties I used to pay very close attention to some of my more experienced co-workers.  I noticed that when I was in the weeds other servers were handling far more tables, helping me out, and looking completely stress free.  I wanted to see what they were doing that I wasn’t.  They had a secret and I wanted to know what it was.  I would ask them, but no one could really put their finger on anything they were doing differently than what all the other servers did.  Over the years, I watched my best co-workers like a hawk.  Learning how they phrased things, how they dealt with the dinner rush, and why it was that their guests seemed to enjoy them so much.

As it became more apparent to me that serving was something that I wanted to be able to support myself with, I began to seek out books to help me.  I read books about sales, but found that few of the techniques were easily applied to serving.  I read books about customer service, but they seemed to all be written for managers.  I read the seven habits, found out how to win friends and influence people, discovered the thinking without the growing rich part.  All of these books were great, but very little of it could be directly applied to making me a better server.

Over my years of serving I have been through the training programs of a dozen restaurants.  Each time I finished training, I made a sincere effort to try to follow their system.  It led to disappointing tips straight out of training until I started integrating the techniques that I knew had worked for me in the past.  Each of these training systems had the same two flaws.  The first was that they were written by someone who had not been in front of a table in years.  They were filled with rambling scripts that came across as an infomercial rather than a service oriented interaction.  The second problem was that they were written to be easily understood by the least intelligent person the restaurant could hire.  They often bordered on patronizing as they explained only the very basics.

Fast forward to two and a half years ago when I found myself relaxing on my couch after training a new server on a lunch shift.  The server delivered their “pitch” as the training manual had taught them to.  Not one thing about that pitch would have made me want to purchase what they were selling.  After following me for the shift, this server seemed excited to learn to do it my way.  It reminded me of how I must have looked trying to watch the great servers at the restaurant I started at.  They had asked me how I made it look so easy and I didn’t have a better response than the servers I had asked years before.  I decided to come up with an answer.

Over the next six months I began outlining and writing a book.  I would go into work each day and try to test very specific techniques.  I would tweak and fine tune the tricks I used to find out exactly what worked and why.  Then I would write about them when I returned home.  Once the book was finished it went through numerous rounds of edits and rewrites.  With each time I reviewed it, I put the techniques back into the forefront of my mind and started trying to polish them.  The finished product that I am announcing today looks very little like the first draft.  The first draft was good, but the end result is a book that I think will make a significant impact on server’s income.

I know this book will help any server that implements the lessons in it to improve their service and increase their tips.  That is not hyperbole, exaggeration, or bragging.  I know this is the case because it has improved my tips.  I knew everything in the book because I wrote the book.  Even on the seventh round of edits and rewrites I was finding things that I was slipping on and by reintroducing them found my tips improving.  It is not all revolutionary and new information.  Many of you will know most of the information in it.  Seeing it explained in a different manner and choosing to apply it will place it in the forefront of you mind and help you increase your income.  Those that have been serving long enough to know most of the information will respect more than anyone how one good technique or trick can improve your tips.  I would not put my name on this book if I was not convinced that you could improve your income by more than the price of the book in the first week.

It is not my intention for this post to turn into a sales pitch.  Instead, I would like to sincerely invite you to check out the website for the book at www.tips2book.com.  There are a number of sample chapters available for you to read and reviews from other bloggers who received advance copies of the book.  Take your time to consider whether you feel the book will improve your income.  I have every confidence it will and hope you will consider buying a copy today.

Tips2: Tips For Improving Your Tips is the new book from the author of The Hospitality Formula Network. It contains the 52 essential skills of the exceptional server. This book teaches the philosophy to turn average service into an exceptional guest experience that will rapidly increase your tips. This book shows how you can provide better customer service and dramatically improve your tips. Enter the coupon code “squared” to receive 20% off your copy today.